I believe that our home is like our mind. It turns overwhelming after a while. Maybe because of passage of time or because of the limited capability of our brain to run in a thousand different directions, we end up stacking a lot of memories in boxes and forget them. Ditto for our home.

But then sometimes, while staring at a drifting cloud or a bird going home, there are memories that rush back, memories that we had long forgotten, memories that surprise us because they are still unknowingly breathing inside us. It is a breathtaking moment when you wonder if a particular memory was actually a dream.

And you ask yourself – Did it actually happen?

I shifted home two years back. It was a painful experience. I had spent 25 years of my life in that house. The house has been a silent spectator of the emotions that everyone living in the house went through – bliss, heartache, gloom, love, togetherness, separation, marriage and death. The house was a member of the family; it was where everyone returned, where everyone found each other.

While I packed my life to move to a new (and bigger) shelter, I stumbled upon memories stacked away and forgotten. I opened boxes to have a look into the piece of the past they contained and was transported back. There were tears in my eyes when I fell upon a shoebox full of my collection of post-cards of Bollywood actors and actresses. Like every other teenager, I was madly in love with them. There was a shop that was a ten minutes walk from my home where a kind, obese uncle sat with his kind, obese son as I rummaged through the postcards for my picks.

My family was not rich. My father was barely able to meet ends and so the importance of money was etched in my mind from childhood. But then I had hobbies. So, I collected every single rupee that was given to me. Every coin added to my piggybank was yet another step towards acquiring a postcard, towards buying a second-hand novel from the Sunday Daryaganj market, towards getting that cassette recorded with the latest Bollywood songs from the local music corner, towards buying the latest comic book of my favorite superhero, towards buying Filmfare and reading all that our stars had to say. There were times when I had to wait for days to accumulate sufficient amount to buy a dream but the wait was always worth it.

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My sister always wanted a Barbie – the new doll with wavy hair that had recently hit the market. She would look hungrily at the shiny dolls wearing glamorous clothes displayed in the windows of toy shops. Of course it was too expensive (Rs 100 a doll back then) and we could not afford it. The hair on her doll’s head was fewer in comparison and would come away after a few combs. I decided to make her happy. I took a nice, long needle and some spare wool (left from a hideous sweater that mom knitted for me) and started adding hair to her doll. I took off the head of the doll and pierced her head with the needle from inside. I then pulled it till the end of the wool and then snipped off the wool so that she now had a hair till her waist. I repeated it a hundred times and soon the doll had lush green woolen hair till her waist that my sister could comb to glory.

When my sister saw Aishwarya Rai become Miss India, she had a sudden urge to host a Miss World in our house. I again came to her rescue leaving my Hot Wheels cars and my plastic animals behind. I drew a lot of lovely women on paper wearing exquisite gowns and sashes of their countries. I then cut them and made them stand by pasting a thin cardboard strip near their legs. I made around 200 such drawings and gave them to my sister to play. She made all of them stand on a table and gave them a number and chose the next Miss World. Oh! How she loved it!

I found the lovely ladies in a box, lying on top of each other and smiling at me.

I found truckload of capacitors and resistors that my father used while repairing our old television. He had done a course in electronics and I would gawk at his notes with that immaculate writing and the complicated circuit diagrams. I found those notes.

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I found Mom’s old black and white fairy photograph. When I came across the bag containing all the pictures, I desperately searched for her photo in which she was wearing a black pahari dress. As a child, I used to think that she was a fairy whenever I looked at that picture. I promised myself that I will get it framed. I found dad’s photograph in which he looked like Rakesh Roshan.

I found my old sketch book about which I blogged here.

I found a card with the picture of a village belle in the front and a sher written inside by my father. I found his wooden miniature airplane.

I found my kindergarten report card.

It was a beautiful day. The boxes that I had stacked away in my mind and completely forgotten were magically opened one by one. As the memories tumbled out, I thought that moving the house wasn’t a bad idea after all. It was refreshing. It took me to another era. It made me realize how much I have changed. It humbled me. But there was a nagging guilt that I was leaving the house behind. And then I felt as if my old house was smiling at me.

“You are not leaving me behind. I am in all of those pictures. I am the wall behind you. I am the floor on which you stand. I am coming with you,” it said.

Sometimes I pass that house and look at it from my car. Someone else is living there now. It is a part of another family.

Does it still remember me?

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About the Author:

Amit Sharma is the Author of fiction novel False Ceilings published by Lifi Publications in January 2016.
Amit always keeps a book and a portable reading light in his bag (much to the amusement of his fellow travellers). His other hobbies include watching world cinema, travelling, staring at hills, digging into various cuisines, cooking, listening to music, painting, blogging, making his daughter laugh and helping his wife with her unnecessary and prolonged shopping.
He is currently working on his Second novel which is a thriller.

106 Comments

  1. BhavanaDiary April 27, 2013 at 9:22 pm - Reply

    You are such a sweet person.. Loved the way you made your sister smile…
    An emotional post indeed..Nice pictures of your parents..

    • Amit April 28, 2013 at 6:12 am - Reply

      Thanks Bhavana. 🙂
      It all seems like another life now. It was such a different time.

  2. Anwesa April 27, 2013 at 9:27 pm - Reply

    Awesome post. Made me nostalgic. And the Miss World idea was the icing on the cake 😀

    • Amit April 28, 2013 at 6:14 am - Reply

      Thanks for liking the post Anwesa. 🙂
      Yes, the Miss World idea was kind of different, wasn’t it? I was really into painting, sketching and arts back then.

  3. pseudomonaz April 27, 2013 at 9:54 pm - Reply

    That was so sweet of you to draw all those pictures for your sister..really cute.. 🙂
    You made me nostalgic, I have changed almost 6 houses till now (because my dad worked in the army) and I was attached to each one of them. And I can relate to that feeling when you pass by a place you once lived in…a house full of memories associated with each phase of your life, a place I was born, a place I spent my childhood in, a place I had my own room…. memories, they make us smile and cry at the same time.
    Great post… 🙂

    • Amit April 28, 2013 at 6:19 am - Reply

      Sweet na? I know! 😀
      I have changed 4 houses but I had spent the longest time in the previous one. I hardly remember the rest of the changes.
      Even the thought of someone else living in that house now is repelling. If I had some extra money, I would have kept it.
      Thanks for liking the post. 🙂

      • pseudomonaz April 28, 2013 at 11:35 am

        Thankfully the house where I spent most of my childhood was my mama’s so I can go there anytime. They have kept all my dolls, kitchen sets safe..haha…The rest of them were government flats, I can never buy them even if I make that much money someday… 🙁

      • Amit April 28, 2013 at 8:55 pm

        I have myself thrown a lot of my things which I regret now. My comic books are no more with me. That was the biggest mistake.
        The way prices are rising, I don’t think we will be capable of buying most of the things.

  4. scribblehappy April 27, 2013 at 10:00 pm - Reply

    Such a beautiful post! And your sister is blessed to have you for a brother.The efforts you made to see her happy…I can only say WOW!!
    And yes, it’s such a queer feeling to see the house you once occupied, to which so many memories will always be attached, being home to someone else.

    • Amit April 28, 2013 at 6:20 am - Reply

      Thanks scribblehappy. 🙂
      It is a strange feeling indeed. When I went back to my college to collect my degree, it was strange to see someone else living in my hostel room. So, seeing someone living in a house where I grew up was kind of revolting.

  5. afshan18 April 27, 2013 at 10:07 pm - Reply

    Cant say how Much I loved reading this amit 🙂
    felt extremely nostalgic. I have my drawings and similar pile of things. feels like digging them now
    and how sweet of u to make woollen hair for dolls and also those drawinggs
    MAN u r an artist.feels like seeing urs and ur sis’s childhood pic. Post it some day and ur mother really is a fairy
    GOD bless
    🙂
    good day

    • Amit April 28, 2013 at 6:28 am - Reply

      Thanks Afshan! 🙂
      You know, all these things are lying in the house but we hardly get time to go through them. I had thought so many times that one day I would take out time and go through them but I kept shifting it to the next week. We should all go through our past once in a while. It is worth it.
      Haha! I have posted a few on FB. Check in my photos section.
      Thanks for all the wishes. 🙂

  6. alkagurha April 27, 2013 at 10:20 pm - Reply

    Words fall short when it comes to nostalgia. A heartfelt trip down the memory lane.

    • Amit April 28, 2013 at 6:34 am - Reply

      Yes, Alka. It was your post that inspired me to write this one.

  7. Anonymous April 27, 2013 at 10:29 pm - Reply

    Sometimes words are not enough to express your feelings .. don’t have words jst remembering the old love and care which we shared in the past , the togetherness , the bonding , the love b/w a brother and a sister , god bless u bhai ..

    • Amit April 28, 2013 at 6:36 am - Reply

      Ok. I am guessing you are the girl for whom I created all those Miss World contestants. 😛
      It was a different time. What crazy things we did! God bless you too crazy girl!

  8. Nomad April 27, 2013 at 10:49 pm - Reply

    A beautiful story.
    I used to love rummaging through old photos, scrapbooks and mad things my sister and I had build, at least once a year. Like a British raj style “punkah” with rope and all, to be hung across the bedposts. We used to take turns to pull it, and non-pulling person could pretend to get some relief from the summer powercuts.
    Now I feel it has been some years since I looked through them…
    Loved the things you made for your sister. The treatment of the doll alopecia problem was very innovative, I would like to go back in time to try it for my sister whose most dolls suffered from this ailment.

    • Amit April 28, 2013 at 6:42 am - Reply

      Yes, we should all do the rummaging. It keeps you grounded.
      I have done the hair thing with so many of her dolls. 🙂 I remember, she would then wet the wool and it would be easy to comb and would bounce beautifully. The only problem was that the head would become so heavy that it would drop off! 🙂

      • Nomad April 30, 2013 at 5:54 pm

        🙂

  9. crazyambivert April 27, 2013 at 10:49 pm - Reply

    the part about collecting postcards was bang on ! I still remember a shahrukh khan poster I had for more than 10 years until my baby cousin decided to drop by and cover his face with measles using a black marker 😀

    • Amit April 28, 2013 at 6:43 am - Reply

      I have spent some crazy amount of time at that shop. The obese uncle would see me coming from far away and put the postcards on the counter before I reached the shop. 🙂

  10. Aniruddha April 27, 2013 at 11:17 pm - Reply

    At first instant I really though of that pic to be of Rakesh Roshan…
    Such a innocent poster of Madhuri…These days we don’t get stars like them anymore…

    • Amit April 28, 2013 at 6:45 am - Reply

      🙂 That is what everyone tells me. I somehow never saw the resemblance but it must be there.
      About Madhuri, I guess you are attached to the stars whose movies you have seen during your teens. I was crazy about Sridevi, Madhuri and Juhi.

  11. Giribala April 27, 2013 at 11:30 pm - Reply

    Beautiful!! I have changed many houses and have carried some of my memorabilia with me. I have magazine cuttings of Albert Einstein’s childhood picture as well as Alice’s picture among them. In my diaries I have noted down wrongly attributed quotations from TOI. Now we can find such things on internet.

    • Amit April 28, 2013 at 9:59 pm - Reply

      I have thrown away a few of my things but I regret it now. I used to have a diary in which I wrote the names of all the novels I have read. I don’t have that diary anymore but now I have Goodreads. Yes, internet has changed a lot of things for good.

  12. Nisha April 28, 2013 at 1:16 am - Reply

    The Miss World thing is way tooo cute!!
    Changing homes is tough emotionally. So far I’ve changed three homes and have cried like a baby everytime. The good part is it gets worse with each change. Good because every new place becomes more dear than the earlier with time. And so I believe that changes make our life worth living for 🙂

    • Amit April 28, 2013 at 10:02 pm - Reply

      Thanks Nisha. 🙂
      All the memories of the older house are not good but while living in a house, you get used to the idea that this is going to be forever. So when a change happens, it hits you hard.
      I agree with you. I like my new home more than the older one. 🙂

  13. latha April 28, 2013 at 6:29 am - Reply

    Awwww…..you are such a sweet brother, Amit. I just loved the pics of the all the participants…how much time and effort you must have put in it. And your dad does look like Rakesh Roshan..and your mom is truly beautiful. For me, I never stayed in house for years together…:( The max was for 4 yrs where I had more memories of growing years from my 7th to 10th grade. It was a rental house, but then I felt really sad. I had an almirah where I pasted all my fav pics on the inside of the door. I felt really sad when leaving that home. And staying in a home for 25 yrs, woww…..I can imagine what it feels like..

    • Amit April 28, 2013 at 10:07 pm - Reply

      Latha,
      I think I had loads of time back then. 🙂 I was very much into drawing and arts and crafts, so I used to take such assignments with great enthusiasm.
      Thanks Latha. Although I can never see the resemblance between Rakesh Roshan and my father but too many people have said that and so I believe them. 🙂

      • latha April 29, 2013 at 10:11 pm

        Me too…after school and college, I never got back into drawing..except for doing stained glass now..that too with a hundred breaks.

  14. Saritha April 28, 2013 at 8:21 am - Reply

    Such a lovely post and i can relate a lot with what you wrote. I too come from middle class family and how myself and my sister wished for a Barbie…..We sisters used to collect pictures of film stars and cricketers, one pic used to cost 10 – 25 ps. My mom still has those books in which we pasted those pics…..

    For a moment when i saw your dad picture i thought Rakesh Roshan and your mom as young Poonam Dhillon……

    You are such a lovely brother…..your sister is lucky to have you…..

    • Amit April 28, 2013 at 10:12 pm - Reply

      Thanks for liking the post Saritha,
      I was into Hot Wheels as a kid and loved them to bits. Of course they were too expensive and I hardly had 4 of them over a period of 10 years. I kept them even when they broke. 🙂 I wonder if the children of today’s generation go through such cravings.
      Thank you for all the nice words. 🙂

  15. kirti April 28, 2013 at 9:02 am - Reply

    hey Amit,
    I am kirti ,a relatively new visitor to your blog, though I started following your blog asa I read a couple of posts in one go a few months back.
    I loved this post of yours.All along I was imagining my own old house where we (I stayed until got married) stayed . I felt as if you were speaking for me and my bro and my house.
    I found you a very sweet brother ,artist and all. Miss world thing was a great effort.It must have kept you and yr sis busy and preoccupied for days on . Wasn’t that a great blessing to be hooked off TV , video games and be busy in doing creative things?

    • Amit April 28, 2013 at 10:15 pm - Reply

      Hi Kirti. Welcome to my space and thanks for liking the post. 🙂
      It is strange how so many of us go through similar emotions. It makes me feel normal . 🙂
      It was a different world back then – simpler and more fulfilling.

  16. The Girl Next Door April 28, 2013 at 9:06 am - Reply

    What a beautiful post, Amit. Touched me to the core. I could relate to every word of it, since my parents recently sold off our house in Ahmedabad and came to Bangalore to settle down here near us. We recently went through this very same process of sifting through memories contained inside cardboard boxes. The OH had a fantastic time looking at the old me. 🙂

    I thought I would do a post about it, but never did. You inspire me. Thank you for this! 🙂

  17. The Girl Next Door April 28, 2013 at 9:07 am - Reply

    And, yes, both your parents look so smart! Your mom does look like a fairy in that dress, and your dad does resemble Rakesh Roshan.

    BTW, very sweet of you to add hair to your sister’s doll and make cut-out Miss Indias for her. 🙂 Very cute!

    I used to collect picture postcards of Bollywood stars when I was a kid, too. 🙂 I never saved them, though. I used to send them out to my classmates for Diwali. 🙂

    • Amit April 29, 2013 at 9:48 pm - Reply

      Thanks for liking the post TGND. 🙂 I too went through Geet’s childhood pictures some time back and had a great time.
      Oh yes! Both my parents were stunners. I think I got my good looks from them. 😛
      And about the postcard bit, I wanted to create a world record of sorts by collecting pictures of all the actors. I even have postcards of Mamta Kulkarni and Bhagyashree.

      • The Girl Next Door April 29, 2013 at 9:51 pm

        Ditto on Mamta Kulkarni and Bhagyashree. 😛

  18. reekycoleslaw April 28, 2013 at 9:20 am - Reply

    This, my friend, has got to be the best piece of yours that I have read so far. ‘Soft as an easy chair, fresh as the morning air’ as the song goes. And also because it gives a glimpse into your kind, generous, simple heart.
    Kudos to you!

    • Amit April 29, 2013 at 9:50 pm - Reply

      Thank you Rickie ji. 🙂

  19. umashankar April 28, 2013 at 10:03 am - Reply

    Oh no, Amit! Forgive me for saying this but half of it can pass as my story!

    I was moved by your act of adding hair to the pate of your sister’s doll and the hosting of a local Miss India contest. And that is where my reverie breaks. I was no such angel.

    A beautifully poignant trip down the memory lane.

    • Amit April 29, 2013 at 9:52 pm - Reply

      I am actually surprised that so many of us have similar memories. 🙂
      Thanks for liking the post.

  20. Kajal Kapur April 28, 2013 at 11:23 am - Reply

    Wow, Amit…this transported me back to my days of the 90s and a similar incident that forced me to look down the memory lane with nostalgia back in 2002. Great read, very emotional!

    • Amit April 29, 2013 at 9:53 pm - Reply

      Thanks Kajal for liking the post. I think the 90s was such a different time than the last decade that anyone who lived through those two decades look back at the contrast with awe.

  21. Ashwathy April 28, 2013 at 11:26 am - Reply

    Talk about being an awesome blogger! Discovering more dimensions to you than being a kickass blogger 🙂 Pleasantly surprised.

    Did you write this recently? Or is it an old post revamped?
    It kinda feels like you went back in time to write it 🙂 And I mean that as a compliment of course 😛

    • Amit April 29, 2013 at 9:56 pm - Reply

      Thanks Ash. 🙂
      This is a new post. I wanted to write this since a long time.
      Yes, I went back in time to write this. I think I am fortunate that I have something in my past to go back to.

  22. Rachna April 28, 2013 at 11:26 am - Reply

    Loved this post, Amit! I have shifted multiple houses right through childhood and even later so unlike you houses don’t have much meaning to me but people and memories certainly do. And such heartwarming memories that you put out. I loved this peek into your life. The pics of your parents are so wonderful. Even I have very few pics of my parents. And that Miss World thing is super cool! Brothers really do that?

    • Amit April 29, 2013 at 9:58 pm - Reply

      Thanks Rachna. 🙂
      I haven’t changed many houses and the last house was the one in which I spent most of my life, so leaving it was a bit difficult. There were so many memories attached to it,
      I would love to see the pics of our parents. I love all those black and white pics.
      Yes, brothers do that. Some of them do. I would like to believe that. 🙂

  23. Rahul April 28, 2013 at 5:10 pm - Reply

    The nostalgia of lovely memories is truly memorable! A beautiful post with so much treasure of bygone time!

  24. perspectivesandprejudices April 28, 2013 at 11:50 pm - Reply

    Wow, so beautifully written, Amit 🙂 I’ve lived in the same house my entire life and can’t imagine what it would feel like to move. A post so rich with emotion… 🙂

    • Amit May 1, 2013 at 10:23 am - Reply

      You are lucky if you have never changed your house. It is not a very nice exercise.
      Thanks for liking the post. 🙂

  25. My Era April 29, 2013 at 12:07 am - Reply

    Saying I loved this post would be an understatement.

    Preparing those Miss World contestants was something I could never even imagine someone doing, so very wonderfully done by a very loving brother 😀

    Loved being a part of your fond childhood memories 🙂

    • Amit May 1, 2013 at 10:27 am - Reply

      Thanks my Era. 🙂
      I loved drawing and painting, so I usually jumped at any chance of indulging in such activities.
      Thank you for liking the post. 🙂

  26. Jas April 29, 2013 at 7:31 am - Reply

    Really nostalgic Amit. It just brought back all the memories when I moved my house.

    • Amit May 1, 2013 at 10:38 am - Reply

      Thanks Jas. Yes, we all are same inside. 🙂

  27. Deepti April 29, 2013 at 8:39 am - Reply

    Very nice post Amit…as always….and I absolutely loved those miss indias drawn with amazing detail….i wish my sis was so tuned to my needs as a child, and not the barbie spoiling kid that she was….really enjoyed the pics of ur parents as well….

    • Amit May 1, 2013 at 10:40 am - Reply

      Thanks Deepti. 🙂
      Some of them were quite horrible but most of them came out alright. I was surprised to see that I actually colored them. I remembered them black and white. Sounds crazy, I know.
      Thank you for liking the post. 🙂

  28. onehonestwriter April 29, 2013 at 8:52 am - Reply

    Emotional. Nostalgic. Honest. Full of Brotherly love. And I loved it.

    I totally thought it was an old picture of Rakesh Roshan and your mom, she is so beautiful. And because of your dad’s picture and other postcards I assumed this to be a post on filmstars when it appeared on my reader, I started guessing the other black n white pic and it seemed the graceful Shweta Bacchan and then I thought why her pic would be b/w that made me to read the whole post only to realise it is your mom. Totally worth framing pics.

    You are an artist, never knew this. Those beautiful queens wow :). Ditto on collecting postcards thing from a shop where everyone used to call the uncle ‘Mamu’

    Last time I went my maiden home, I did the same activity rummaging through old boxes and shed away some if the bad memories of past and preserve the good happy ones.

    • Amit May 1, 2013 at 11:07 am - Reply

      Thank you Onehonestwriter. 🙂
      Most of the people think the pic is of Rakesh Roshan although I cannot see the similarity. Mom was beautiful, she still is if you don’t consider how she looks in the morning. 🙂
      I don’t know if I can call myself an artist. Lets say that there were other pressing issues like putting food on the table that made me give up painting.

  29. R's Mom April 29, 2013 at 10:01 am - Reply

    Sigh! what a post to read on a Monday morning..you made me all nostalgic…you are a terrific brother eh? How the hell did you draw so many of those models!! I think you are adorable 🙂

    and your mom..sigh! she looks amazing eh?

    LOL on dad looking like Rakesh Roshan..he sure does

    and that transistor circuits..wow!

    • Amit May 1, 2013 at 11:10 am - Reply

      Thanks for liking the post R’s Mom. 😀
      Yeah, Mom looks amazing in that photograph. There is so much innocence on her face.
      Although I don’t like transistor circuits (I had a disturbing time understanding them during my M.Sc), I like the way he has made notes.

  30. Dancing Fingers Singing Keypad April 29, 2013 at 10:09 am - Reply

    This lovely post touches a chord in every reader’s heart. Such sweet nostalgia! And even sweeter was what you did for your little sister, that was really nice of you and shows the close bond you shared 🙂

    • Amit May 1, 2013 at 11:11 am - Reply

      Thanks DFSK. 🙂 I think it touched everyone because deep down we are all alike.

  31. Sreetama April 29, 2013 at 10:26 am - Reply

    Very touchy and heartwarming post. I could so empathize with you as I too have moved to couple of houses and packing always brought back lost treasures from time. You are an amazing brother! Uncle surely looks like Rakesh Roshan and aunty like an angel! 🙂

    • Amit May 1, 2013 at 11:13 am - Reply

      Thanks Sreetama. 🙂 Yes, it is strange how so many old memories are packed away. They are living with us and neglected in a corner. And then one fine day, it is time to move and we unearth them yet again.

  32. glimpsesandglances April 29, 2013 at 11:16 am - Reply

    It is so cute of you to draw and cut out those models and add hair to your sister’s doll,one adorable brother you are 🙂 Lovely post this one is 🙂

    • Amit May 1, 2013 at 11:13 am - Reply

      Thanks glimpsesandglances. 🙂

  33. chipmunk April 29, 2013 at 1:03 pm - Reply

    such a nostalgic moment 🙂 🙂 I can feel the love of you for your sister 🙂 and dude the miss world contestant were splendid 🙂 their hairstyle is something I adore a lot 🙂 frame them if it is possible 🙂 🙂

    repeating the stitch for hundred times is something a spinal ache work and I am so jealous upon sissy to have a sibling like you 🙂 your mom has a dashing look 🙂 🙂 she is so so cute in the black and white photo 🙂

    • Amit May 1, 2013 at 11:16 am - Reply

      Thanks for liking the post chipmunk. 🙂
      Haha! yeah, I wanted everyone to have a different hairstyle and a unique gown. 🙂

  34. ashreyamom April 29, 2013 at 1:27 pm - Reply

    first let me tell you, you are a lovely brother, you drew so many models for her to play and stitched barbie hair.. super.. i too have a box filled with all greeting cards and my sketches.. of course old dairies, at times it is embarrassing to re-read the dairy too… but great memories to be cherished..

    • Amit May 1, 2013 at 11:17 am - Reply

      Thanks ashreyamom. 🙂 It was more out of my craving to draw something. 🙂
      I too have an old slam-book filled with embarrassing details. 🙂

  35. chaitali April 29, 2013 at 1:59 pm - Reply

    Heart warming post.. your dad does look like rakesh roshan..

    • Amit May 1, 2013 at 11:18 am - Reply

      Thanks Chaitali.
      I have never seen the resemblance but I believe everyone. 🙂

  36. Shakti Ghosal April 29, 2013 at 5:00 pm - Reply

    Your post resonates with me.

    Our home, over time takes on two roles. a haven of peace after a hard day’s work and a repository of our life memories.Imagine if our homes had the capability of playing back our life’s moments to us when we asked it to?

    Shakti

    • Amit May 1, 2013 at 11:23 am - Reply

      Thanks Shakti.
      Yes, that would be very interesting if the house plays back our memories, although I would prefer to see only the good ones.

  37. metherebel April 29, 2013 at 5:57 pm - Reply

    Such a sweet nostalgic post. You are a very sweet older brother! That pictures of Miss World contestants is just awesome. I am sure it must have taken so much time drawing/cutting them. All the effort to make the sister happy 🙂

    Your dad looks like Rakesh Roshan 🙂 And your mother is pretty 🙂

    • Amit May 1, 2013 at 11:24 am - Reply

      Thanks Metherebel. 🙂
      I don’t remember at all about the time it took me to create all of them. I only remember the end result. 🙂
      Thanks for liking the pics. 🙂

  38. Maddie April 29, 2013 at 6:07 pm - Reply

    Oh you are a very good brother! You sister is lucky! 🙂 And guess what even I have a photo of my mom in a similar outfit. 😀 It’s back in India, will put it up someday.

    This is such a lovely post. Thank you for making me smile and sending me on my own nostalgic trip!

    • Amit May 1, 2013 at 11:27 am - Reply

      I am? 🙂 Thanks!
      Yes, Yes. Do put up that picture.
      Thanks for liking the post Maddie.

  39. Bhavia April 29, 2013 at 6:22 pm - Reply

    What a post Amit ji!!
    the miss world sketches are awesome 🙂
    And Uncle looks like Rakesh Roshan and Aunty is so pretty.I liked her jewelry,please do tell her

    • Amit May 1, 2013 at 11:31 am - Reply

      Thanks Bhavia ji. 🙂
      I still like a few of the contestants, so I think the sketches are alright.
      Thanks for liking the pics. 🙂

  40. Indian Homemaker April 29, 2013 at 7:01 pm - Reply

    You made all those beautiful – 200 beautiful pictures and put cardboard strips for them to stand!!! How she must have loved them!

    • Amit May 1, 2013 at 11:32 am - Reply

      Thanks IHM. 🙂 Yeah, she liked them a lot. She played with them for many months.

  41. Avada Kedavra April 30, 2013 at 1:35 am - Reply

    wow! you really made those 200 pictures! First time here on your blog 🙂 I can imagine how it must feel to leave the house where you have stayed for 25 yrs. My current house is where we have been living in for some 15-16 yrs. I cannot imagine leaving it!

    • Amit May 1, 2013 at 11:34 am - Reply

      Welcome here Avada Kedavra. 🙂
      Yes, it is always tough to undergo a change, even if it is for our good. 🙂

  42. Pratiksha April 30, 2013 at 4:21 pm - Reply

    Okay… so you are a very very famous guy 🙂 😛 quite visible from the no. of comments you’ve got 😛 🙂

    My Dad too is in a transferable job… so I can relate with your experience! Shifting house, packing, settling down to a new one, new environment…..&$^@&*%$^%$&^@(*#$(&$*(@^%&&% A BIG TASK!!! but still I Love it!

    As you mentioned about your box containing your beautiful memories… my box, secretly kept at my home, was flashing in front of my eyes and saying me Hi…:), I remembered how i used to keep those pages of stories, (i used to tear them off from mom’s magazines- Manoram, Sarita, Grihshobha etc etc…:)) I don’t know how many of you know about all these magazines but yes… even I used to read those magazines for stories…those sketches (i tried hands on :P) friendship bands, New Year greeting cards, birthday gifts, My most priced possessions- my Diaries! 🙂 everything… even right now when I’m writing about them, they are pushing me back to memory lane..:) 🙁

    Now that I’m on the edge of (forced to :() shifting my flat (a 4th one now in 1.9 yrs of job :() I’m feeling very sad… coz this was the loveliest house i had ever got.. I’ll miss my house… all beautiful memories associated with it will remind me the beautiful evenings, mornings spent at this house…

    A beautiful post.. making me nostalgic… gr8 work.. keep it up!! 🙂 🙂

  43. Pratiksha April 30, 2013 at 4:23 pm - Reply

    I must say… your Mom does look like a beautiful Angel… just loved her pic…:):) n your dad too as you said, looks like Rakesh Roshan :D:) You sis is lucky to ve a bro like you:)

    • Amit May 4, 2013 at 7:52 am - Reply

      Welcome here Pratiksha and thank you for liking the post. 🙂
      And no I am not famous. Half of the comments are my own replies. 😛
      Yes, I have seen all those magazines in my house. I think it started with Sarita and then mom moved to Grihshobha. I remember staring at pictures of food in one of the summer edition.
      I think change is always painful. We have to move out of our comfort zone. But then it was a change that landed us in our current situation. 🙂
      Thanks for liking the pics of my mom and dad. I think the good looks have skipped a generation but I hope will be revived in the future. 🙂

      • Pratiksha May 4, 2013 at 1:55 pm

        🙂 As quoted- Change is the only constant thing in life…. it’s better to accept change n move on with it…

        n pertaining to good looks, if you feel that so.. then all the best 🙂

  44. Visha April 30, 2013 at 10:00 pm - Reply

    And all my brother loved to do was to pour water on my paintings when I used to leave them to dry and go out to play 😥

    Your ma looking like an angel is an understatement, she is breathtakingly beautiful.

    During one spring cleaning of my maiden home years ago, I came across a diary of the household expenses maintained by my parents. Every day had an entry. The yellowed pages were a treasure trove which had many stories while flipping the pages.

    I so loved this post of yours Amit 🙂

    • Amit May 4, 2013 at 7:54 am - Reply

      Visha,
      //And all my brother loved to do was to pour water on my paintings//
      *horrified beyond words* 🙂
      My sis was a complete bully in her initial years. Imagine a 5 year old beating a 9 year old. Yes, that happened. She sobered up as she grew up.
      I found some Urdu diaries of my grandfather. I don’t know why I forgot to mention that in the post.
      Thanks Visha for liking the post. 🙂

  45. Roshni May 1, 2013 at 10:18 am - Reply

    What a beautiful post! And, what a sweet brother you are!

  46. forgottogrowup May 2, 2013 at 4:03 pm - Reply

    as always ..this ones a lovely post too…:)….2 special points- anyone would die to have a brother like you…:)…:)…and man…the postcard obsession!!!….i had collected so many postcards of DDLJ and HAHK…those were the days…:)…wonderful!!….

    • Amit May 4, 2013 at 7:56 am - Reply

      Thanks forgottogrowup. 🙂
      Now that I look back, the postcard mania makes absolutely no sense. I don’t know why I did that.

  47. purbaray May 3, 2013 at 5:36 am - Reply

    Amit, you are making me extremely jealous of your sister. You were/are such a sweetheart.
    And those 200 pictures you drew for her are meant to be treasured for life.

    What beautiful trip down nostalgia lane. Absolutely loved it!

    • Amit May 4, 2013 at 7:59 am - Reply

      Thanks Purba. 🙂
      We had our share of fights and hair pulling. It was only after I left for hostel that we sobered up and started behaving like humans.
      I had no idea mom has kept those pictures. I was surprised to find them. I did not even remember that I colored the pictures. It was such a long time back.
      Thank you for liking the post.

  48. Destiny's child May 3, 2013 at 2:27 pm - Reply

    I simply loved this post. You are too good a brother – hair for the doll and those 200 miss world contestants, how lucky your sister is! And your parents are beautiful. 🙂

    • Amit May 4, 2013 at 8:00 am - Reply

      Thanks Destiny’s child.
      Haha! Not that lucky. We had our fights and they were terrible. 🙂

  49. dauntlessdaisy May 3, 2013 at 9:16 pm - Reply

    you are one hell of an adorable brother re 🙂 And I feel the same when I realized that my hostel life is going to end in a year. I would miss the place, it was my second home. 🙁
    The models are amazing….you have got a creative bone 😀

    • Amit May 4, 2013 at 8:01 am - Reply

      Thanks Dauntlessdaisy.
      Ending of hostel life is a tragedy I have lived through. I was a zinda laash for 2 months till I found a few distractions. 🙂

  50. Smita T May 5, 2013 at 12:41 pm - Reply

    I had tears in my eyes, while scrolling down… I can totally relate to the feelings one has while moving out… I stayed in my first house for 22 years (that is now demolished… I feel the pain every time I pass from there)… next for 4-5 years and then its 2-3 years per house… but still everytime we move out… I go around the empty house and tell it not to forget me… because I had wonderful time there

    • Amit May 7, 2013 at 5:47 am - Reply

      Thank you for liking the post Smita. Your old house is demolished? That is so terrible. I cant imagine what you must have felt on seeing it turned into rubble.

  51. jitendravaswani May 27, 2013 at 2:15 pm - Reply

    I just loved your post. You too too adorable brother bro. Your sister is very lucky to have you. Tears came in my eyes by reading your blog post

    • Amit May 27, 2013 at 8:47 pm - Reply

      Thanks for liking the post Jitendra and this beautiful comment.

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